Tis could be a real can of worms im opening here ,but what the hell im well known for it so once more shouldnt hurt
Selling stuff
Price states -for example £10
chap enquires about part and sends me the funds
But alas only £9.26 arrives in paypal as the sender hasnt paid as a gift.
should i bill for the difference or let it go
Im ruled by logic its part and parcel of being an aspie ,pedantic would be a better term
[so im told :shock: ]
i asked for £10 ,not £9.26 :?
I didnt ask to be sent as a gift [so the buyer absorbs this fee] ,well it 'is' their account after all and therefore their fee and not mine.
But to be honest i dont see why i should.It is up to the buyer to send me the correct amount
I ask the buyer to send the difference
Buyer replies that because i didnt ask for it as a gift ,then i should pay HIS fee.
The seller shouldnt have to care about what the buyer is charged.
The sending as a fee is something that seems to have been agreed on the forum to save both buyer and seller from paying a fee.Its all trust here .doesnt mean that if you dont ask for that method that you are automatically accepting their fees
Im losing the drift of this but i hope you can all get the point im trying to get across
sorry
Last analogy- What if the payment the buyer sent was subject to a fee of £9.99
Does this mean i have to send the part for a penny and count my blessings.
No names
PS its not about forgetting to to pay my fees when i bought a recent thingy on here.Im happy to pay the correct amount asked for and was very embarresed to have not sent the correct amount.I paid up instantly
And was apologetic for such a thoughtless act :twisted:
deep breath


Selling stuff
Price states -for example £10
chap enquires about part and sends me the funds
But alas only £9.26 arrives in paypal as the sender hasnt paid as a gift.
should i bill for the difference or let it go
Im ruled by logic its part and parcel of being an aspie ,pedantic would be a better term

[so im told :shock: ]
i asked for £10 ,not £9.26 :?
I didnt ask to be sent as a gift [so the buyer absorbs this fee] ,well it 'is' their account after all and therefore their fee and not mine.
But to be honest i dont see why i should.It is up to the buyer to send me the correct amount
I ask the buyer to send the difference
Buyer replies that because i didnt ask for it as a gift ,then i should pay HIS fee.
The seller shouldnt have to care about what the buyer is charged.
The sending as a fee is something that seems to have been agreed on the forum to save both buyer and seller from paying a fee.Its all trust here .doesnt mean that if you dont ask for that method that you are automatically accepting their fees
Im losing the drift of this but i hope you can all get the point im trying to get across


Last analogy- What if the payment the buyer sent was subject to a fee of £9.99
Does this mean i have to send the part for a penny and count my blessings.
No names
PS its not about forgetting to to pay my fees when i bought a recent thingy on here.Im happy to pay the correct amount asked for and was very embarresed to have not sent the correct amount.I paid up instantly
And was apologetic for such a thoughtless act :twisted:
deep breath

