one-eyed_jim":2zr554qj said:
Neil":2zr554qj said:
Having the same innuendo made, over and over doesn't appear to be fixing anything, moving it forward, or doing anything more than reinforcing the underlying disenfranchisement.
I don't know if Rob had a specific reason for starting this thread now, but where's the harm in it?
That's disengenuous, and you know it - so don't play innocent about it. The guv hinted at it being troublesome waters on the first page of the thread.
one-eyed_jim":2zr554qj said:
Neil":2zr554qj said:
Your previous reply suggested you were discussing it "for the good of the community", and this reply ("That's why...") suggests you accept that the repeated labouring of this theme isn't good for the community.
Exactly. There's a balance to be struck. It doesn't surprise me that we disagree on where that point of balance is to be found.
Well it doesn't seem to be improving - it just seems to be festering under the surface.
Whilst I'm sure there are times when tensions do run high, I don't recall the same degree of
prolonged BOTM related squabbling in years gone by.
one-eyed_jim":2zr554qj said:
Neil":2zr554qj said:
If you concede "There are moments of bitterness, true" then what are you really arguing about, there?
I'm asserting my disagreement with your claim that the dominant tone is one of bitterness, obviously.
My exact words, were:-
Neil":2zr554qj said:
I mean, FFS, it all just sounds so bitter.
And were in context of:-
Neil":2zr554qj said:
Do you think the squabbling that such discussions and divisions it appears to reinforce, are also good for the commuity?
How many BOTM threads, and BOTM fallout threads have had the same or similar discontent raised?
I mean, FFS, it all just sounds so bitter.
I didn't use the term "dominant", that was your invention - so I'd appreciate you not putting words in my mouth that weren't there, is there any real need?
I did say "sounds" - and I show context for that above, and I stand by that - the repeated, ongoing, underlying discontentment that seems to be repeatedly hinted at, by some, about the BOTM votes, in recent months, does "sounds so bitter" to me.
I'm not claiming that the forum is so bitter, or the concept of BOTM has become so bitter, merely one side of the ever-reoccurring, hinted, but nothing-more-really, accusation that there's trouble at'mill.
one-eyed_jim":2zr554qj said:
Neil":2zr554qj said:
one-eyed_jim":2zr554qj said:
What "creepy, snide digs"?
Oh, FFS, this entire thread, the comments on the previous BOTM threads, and fallout threads - that became so sniping, posts were deleted from the BOTM thread, and a different voting system imposed.
So
those creepy, snide digs.
I really don't get what you think is creepy or snide about this thread.
To be explicit - which I think this entire topic would be more well served with, rather than resentment bubbling under the surface, again, and again - what I think is creepy and snide, is the repeated insinuations about votes, sock-puppetry from some; about people "knowing" this, but yet not disclosing it - either when it's discussed, or to the mods.
Because this topic keeps rearing it's ugly head, with rumours and innuendo, is doing nothing than prolonging the argument, and resolving nothing other than reinforcing whatever divisions or factions are on both sides.
A simple question for you: after 6 pages of this thread, and similar themes being hinted at in several previous threads, how is it any further forward, or nearing resolution?