one-eyed_jim":2iu07gcq said:
Neil":2iu07gcq said:
The guv hinted at it being troublesome waters on the first page of the thread.
I'm often surprised by how frequently John exercises his proprietorial right, but this is his site, and that's
his business.
Well opinions vary.
And I'm not saying this to be a suck-up, but I find it one of the refreshing aspects to this forum. Somebody who's not afraid to lead. Some forums, trip over themselves, because in order to try and appease / appeal to everybody, the admins / mods bend over backwards - and in the end, appease nobody.
one-eyed_jim":2iu07gcq said:
Neil":2iu07gcq said:
Whilst I'm sure there are times when tensions do run high, I don't recall the same degree of prolonged BOTM related squabbling in years gone by.
It's such a tiny part of the total traffic. I honestly couldn't say if it's increased or diminished since my arrival here three years ago. One problem in resolving any of these issues, of course, is that all the interesting threads keep getting locked before any resolution can be reached.
1. Surely you can't be blind to the tensions that have fallen out of the last few BOTMs?
2. This thread hasn't been locked, yet.
3. Have the numerous discussions so far not resolved it? If not, why not?
one-eyed_jim":2iu07gcq said:
Neil":2iu07gcq said:
My exact words, were:-
Neil":2iu07gcq said:
I mean, FFS, it all just sounds so bitter.
I didn't use the term "dominant", that was your invention - so I'd appreciate you not putting words in my mouth that weren't there, is there any real need?
I wasn't quoting you directly.
I didn't say you were - I said you were putting words in my mouth - you were. You said:-
one-eyed_jim":2iu07gcq said:
your claim that the dominant tone is one of bitterness
I made no such claim.
I did say:-
Neil":2iu07gcq said:
Do you think the squabbling that such discussions and divisions it appears to reinforce, are also good for the commuity?
How many BOTM threads, and BOTM fallout threads have had the same or similar discontent raised?
I mean, FFS, it all just sounds so bitter.
So that sentence is in context of the preceding, and to which I later clarified:-
Neil":2iu07gcq said:
I did say "sounds" - and I show context for that above, and I stand by that - the repeated, ongoing, underlying discontentment that seems to be repeatedly hinted at, by some, about the BOTM votes, in recent months, does "sounds so bitter" to me.
I'm not claiming that the forum is so bitter, or the concept of BOTM has become so bitter, merely one side of the ever-reoccurring, hinted, but nothing-more-really, accusation that there's trouble at'mill.
one-eyed_jim":2iu07gcq said:
Neil":2iu07gcq said:
Because this topic keeps rearing it's ugly head, with rumours and innuendo, is doing nothing than prolonging the argument, and resolving nothing other than reinforcing whatever divisions or factions are on both sides.
Perhaps it could use some more constructive direction from the chair.
I disagree - I think John has made comments about being receptive both earlier, and now, to any claims of shenanigans.
I wonder if anybody has really actually taken it up with him, or the mods, given that some have already said they
know there are people with more than one account, and that block voting goes on, organised by PM.
If people "know" this already, and are concerned enough to discuss this several times, and defensive of it being repeatedly discussed, why so reticent about actually doing anything about it?
one-eyed_jim":2iu07gcq said:
Neil":2iu07gcq said:
A simple question for you: after 6 pages of this thread, and similar themes being hinted at in several previous threads, how is it any further forward, or nearing resolution?
As Zhou Enlai said, "it's too soon to tell".
So we're a few days further on.
Progress?
What progress do you imagine will happen without people being more direct? Or if the accusers are not prepared to, perhaps accepting that any further mithering about it serves nothing more than encouraging a divide, but not having any conviction to actually do anything active about it to heal the gap?
So roll on the next thread with ever more of the insinuations, eh...