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In 40 years of off road cycling, I’ve had various off-road tumbles, one of those serious. It was my fault. I learned, I think.
In 40 years of riding on the road, I have had friends killed by cars (one left dead by the side of the road after a hit and run - he was an incredibly competent cyclist), I have had friends badly injured by drunk drivers (Sunday morning ride), had my back broken (motorcyclist coming through a red light whilst I was on a green), been shouted and sworn at repeatedly for riding two aside on wide roads (including one person who actually nearly ran into us whilst shouting ‘you shouldn’t be riding like that’ from an open top car, whilst on the widest two-lane road in Brighton, and much entirely unwarranted shouted abuse from people who found it very funny to slow down and hurl insults. In the early days of helmet wearing the abuse was constant and tedious. In the narrow lanes where we live, I fret every time I hear a car coming from behind since I have had so many incidents with overtaking cars misjudging my speed.
I’ve just had enough of riding on the road. I commute, but ride extremely defensively. But that’s it. I hate road riding. I went out once with my son last year, and yep, 10 minutes out a guy starts hooting and shouting because we are riding as a pair, within the law, him slowing to shout out of the window at us, on a section of clear road, no other cars anywhere in sight - he could easily have indicated and passed us.
I cycle a lot. But now it’s all off road. Where people are relaxed and pleasant. Where birds sing, daisies grow and bunnies hop. And where I sometimes f==k up, but it’s all my own fault.