Humanity

Russell":5n439neg said:
Nice open minded comments as usual.

Seems to me that she is suffering from Post Natal Illness.

If she truly wanted to harm the baby, would she have gone to the trouble of using a pillow?

Many thousands of new mothers struggle to cope, we're lucky that in this country there are mechanisms in place to help them get through. Maybe the woman in the video isn't so lucky.

When I had my first baby he did not sleep not even when I lied down with him only if I was standing up rocking him. Three weeks later I had had no sleep, I was suffering serious sleep deprivation I was very depressed so utterly tired I was in tears all the time. One day he was crying and I just got to the point when I could cope no longer and I just wanted to silence him I was so scared I dumped him in his cot and ran out. I never harmed my son but came very close. In the end my husband and I took shifts two hours each shift and walked him around the snooker table while he slept.

The point is I know how easy it is to be driven to desperate means and that maybe it is easy to condemn without the full facts although saying that children are very vulnerable and it is sad when things go so badly wrong

Alison
 
Russell...you presume too much of me.....yes i would have and did make and stand by those comments .....you jumped in with one opinion. I jumped in with mine, i respect yours but think there are other ways to think about this.

I am educated enough for form my own opinion, sorry if you don't like it, but I wasn't too keen on your over liberal view on this.

We could find excuses and or chemical reasons for everybodies actions in this world, doesn't mean that you should take punishment away. What if she had killed the child ?

We could blame everything on brain chemisty at the end of the day, fine before the event, but not after a child has been beaten, there has to be punishment too for such violence.

Who's to say this is postnatal depression anyway.........it could be lots of other mental health issues.....even a financial or cultural one because the child is a girl ! lots of cultures dislike having a girl child..........or is that impossible ?

She could have been physically abused as a child and this is repeat behaviour........drug addiction........
 
Without knowing the facts of what the situation was at the time the video was taken, we cannot jump to any conclusion regarding the attacker other than the fact that an attack was being recorded, it was what it was an attack that is all, but what really begs the question to me is what the hell was the incident being recorded for, why was the camera operator not stopping the situation, as if they had acted to stop the situation perhaps there would not have been a recording for the internet audience?

Just what is it with some people that they can do this, record such an attack and not make efforts to stop it ? Is it a fact with the advent of pocketable digital recording devices with almost instant transmission to such audience providers as Youtube, we have become a population of voyeurs and with some sick voyeurs ?

Because that is what the video recorder could be for recording the situation and not trying to stop it and what was going through the video recorder's mind to record the incident and for it to end up on the internet where the hue and cry can be emotionally challenged to rant and rave.

And then there is places like here, web forums and such where someone has found such a recording on the internet and links it so others may view after having said what it is about, why is it some feel the need to go and view, when they already know what it contains, are some people that negative they just need to add more negativity to their lives ?

For those that just have to go and view, do you not know you are being desensitised to violence, and in being desensitised, you could become blase to future violence and treat it as so matter of fact, part of life, when it is a fact it is not part of many people's lives.

Violence should be seen as a severe negative in life, not the neutrality it appears to be, we should be aspiring to become non violent, not pandering to our primitive beginnings, but in this constant barrage of violence we are subject to via mostly passive means, we are taking it as just part of life, but in doing so, we are not outraged when our leaders seek to solve political problems with violence, could it be war is still allowed in this civilised world because violence is not considered the evil it should be ?

But as to law, this situation where there was a witness that gathered video evidence, but did not attempt to stop the violence, could it be the evidence recorder in this situation could actually be complicit in whatever harm was caused to the victim ?
 
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