use a tube that is slightly larger thant the central bolt hole and bash it out through the steerer. it takes a bit of time but if you are careful, you won't damage it so can re-use it.
if you aren't planning to re-use it or the lower part of the he steerer is of smaller diameter so the sf nut can't get though, then drill it out by drilling the central hole and use progressibely larger drill bits until the nut falls apart.
Use a drift and knock it further down the steerer tube
Then fit your new SFN over the top of the old one
Unless you're going to use a Head Doctor or similar, then you'll have to try and either punch the SFN all the way through the steerer tube, or fold the tangs of the SFN over so you can pull it out
Bang it all the way through. My lbs was lazy and just move it down a bit to fit a new one, so now I have two and more if a headache if I need to replace the newer one.
if you have nothing special forks just do as above wack it down from the top till it falls out the bottom
if you have nice forks that you would rather not scratch down the steerer
get a metal hollow round steel tube as large as possible to fit in the steerer tube push it up the bottom to the star nut
then put the stel tube on the ground or something solid then wack the star nut in the middle so it bends the outer bits in to make it smaller then it will come out without any damage to the inner steerer tube
If the inside of the steerer is tapered, and / or you don't have large enough drill bits, but do have a long screw driver, you can stick the screw driver up the inside of the steerer and tap it so it folds the SFN tabs up so it can be removed. It'll make a mess of the SFN obviously but I personally would never re-use one any way.