If you live in London, the biggest single concentration of single people looking for a mate in the UK then your chances are good on many dating sites and other methods.
If you live in the provinces then its the same two dozen folk to choose from unless your happy to travel long distances :roll:
Dating sites can be expensive and have not worked even remotely for me.
Expand your activities and social network, thats not worked.
Stop looking and they'll appear, nope thats rubbish to.
They're not all bunny boiling nutters, hah ! round here they are.
Oh yes and life begins a 40, nope its just as crap as 39 as far as success with ladies is concerned.
I do believe in fate, if your fate is to meet your soulmate you will, if its not you wont. I think I'm the latter :roll:
