Why did I bring other sites into it? To make my point - this IS currently a superior user site IMHO because it has been built on such key fundamentals as enthusiasm, good will and inclusion and has yet to be swayed from those, despite occasional pressures from contributors of varied persuasions.
The line about running a BotM is more than a tongue-in-cheek jibe to old spats - it illustrates that, despite frequent contributor issues, it's not that easy to manage forums/activities on behalf/for an unknown audience and to remind those that haven't or don't care to think about the skill, commitment and temperament required to steer a path through the maze of spiky malcontents hidden amongst the genuine enthusiasts. There was a time when everyone joined/participated with pure enthusiasm for the pastime - 5 years on, that goodwill is continually tested by a small and tiresome percentage. Some are new people finding their way about the nuances of forum-based information sharing, but most are old hands who re-emerge, seemingly to want to shape the forum in their own singular direction. If what is here doesn't satisfy - then respect to those that go off and do their own thing (and I include private forums in that view too) or get involved.
I'm no longer a moderator here, although my opinion does of course reflect time behind the scenes and as an organiser of events. I recognise that we are fortunate to have individuals that will run activities like this on our behalf and I'm therefore a supporter of their efforts and of what I believe makes this particular site continue to be of value to its audience.