it's a strange one.
for example, tonight me and a few guys went for a ride to the pub, some of the guys hadn't eaten so they ordered food at the bar and paid for it. the lady then dropped the food over to them after about 10mins. the food was eaten, the pint was drunk and we left. no tip, and the lady would not have expected one.
at the curry house however, we order food after being sat down, eat food, ask for bill then pay it with tip.
it's effectively the same thing.
why the difference? :? even i don't know, but that said as an englishman i know where i am expected to tip and where i am not expected to tip in this country.
when i was in Chicago, me and a mate went to a bar, ordered 2 pints from the bar and my mate said i should tip the barman aswel as pay for the drinks, this i found strange, but did it anyway. we then went and sat down at a table and when we were nearly through our drinks the waitress came over and asked us if we'd like another to which we said yes, my mate then said we'd have to tip her.
this left me confused as to who i should tip and why. so i decided to ask her. Missy then went on to explain the american system, which was tipping up to 20% depending on service and value etc. she said that americans felt that europeans were tight/stingy because they either don't tip or tip very small, we explained that most of the jobs she mentioned weren't deemed tip-able in the UK but the difference was the wages paid, in the UK beer and food is expensive but the staff get paid reasonably well where as in the US the beer and food was cheap but the staff don't get paid well so the tip is effectively you paying their wages direct to them and how much the tip is depends on the quality of there service.
also, if the barman takes the drink order at the bar you'd tip him direct, if you order via the waitress she runs a tab for you, you then pay her when you are ready to leave plus tip in one go, but she will then tip the barman from her tips for getting the drinks for her to give to you, complicated or what??!!
Missy was cool though, on our last night there she spent the entire night with us instead of working, talking about top gear and asking us to pronounce things in an english accent! she was lovely . . . sigh . . .
