Supratada":3eq02nq7 said:
Now there is 24hr coverage with news presenters and "experts" all struggling to fill the airwaves with words, and that's the same whether it's a paedo case, a train strike or snow.
Bombarded with that amount of info, its no wonder that people start to panic about every little thing, when there are reporters talking in urgent voices about what could happen next, which hypothetical disaster could jump out your telly and kill YOU , in your own home, right now.
Where does that leave parents? What if one decides it IS all nonsense and they make their kids walk to school? If something does happen, they'll never forgive themselves so its all back in the car again.
I've no truck with parents who care, who decide they want to take their kids to school - even if their fears aren't really grounded in anything over than media hype. I just don't believe that in all cases, it needs a car for the journey - what's wrong with walking?
Sure, if the distances or time involved is too much, the weather inclement, or there's more than one school involved, or it's on the way to work or something - then fair enough. But in many cases I see, it's just pure laziness or lack of thought. And given the standard or driving and parking around schools that I see, practically daily - and this is a salient point - the parents and / or their kids are probably at more risk of the traffic and drivers around the school, than any other factors.
What many parents either miss, or couldn't care less about, is that it's habit forming for their kids, too - their behaviour becomes the landscape for their kids as they group up. So if the parents are lazy and complacent about jumping in the car, then their kids will likely grow up the same - and however you cut it, for a variety of factors in society, that ain't a good thing.
Supratada":3eq02nq7 said:
When I was at Primary School sometimes we'd be warned about reports of a "prowler" nearby and told to be careful, but we still had to walk home unattended. If a head teacher did that today, the kids would be hysterical with fear and the parents would form a rolling wagon train / lynch mob.
For me, the true sign that society had lost the plot, was the incident of the "anti-paedo-mob" hounding and victimising a paediatrician. And that was over a decade ago.
Supratada":3eq02nq7 said:
Now Maddie McCann, are we really supposed to believe that if you leave a child alone in a room, however irresponsible that may be, one of these winged paedophiles will swoop down and grab her away the moment you turn your back? I think that adequately shows my feelings on what happned to Maddie.
I get your point, and I do wonder whether the public will ever truly get to know the truth of all that.
All the same, I think it's fair to say that if they hadn't been left alone, that Maddie wouldn't have disappeared - however that happened...
IMO, leaving such young kids alone, in a foreign country, so that you could (largely) get on with your social life, unencumbered, was negligence - my parents would have never done that, nor would I with my kids, nor would people I know. I'd either want my kids to be a part of whatever we were doing, or ensure they were with a trusted, responsible adult, or accept that sometimes you can't just behave as if you haven't got kids at times, in order to socialise with friends.
Supratada":3eq02nq7 said:
A few years back, when I was designing some nurseries for a college, because we had old sash windows in one block where there was a playroom, the nursery staff wanted clear perspex sheets over the windows, with air holes so that they could have them open in summer but no-one could reach in and snatch a child.
In a campus? A fair distance from a public road? You really think that people are going to lean in the window and spirit these kids away?
Of course they got their screens, well, better to be safe than sorry, I mean its not like any staff inside the nursery would be dodgy is it?
Agreed - sometimes all the fear is misplaced and overhyped just because of how the story is told.
Here's the thing, though - I suspect if the true risk to kids going to school, was evenly communicated to all parents, in terms of what's most likely to cause their kids harm whilst they get to school, it still wouldn't be enough to get many out of their cars, and on two feet.