t-stoff":8tjf312o said:My point was on to criticize their approach, more or less like the gay parades.
Wow.
t-stoff":8tjf312o said:My point was on to criticize their approach, more or less like the gay parades.
FMJ":28q6nzvb said:t-stoff":28q6nzvb said:My point was on to criticize their approach, more or less like the gay parades.
Wow.
t-stoff":1f3xm8t1 said:If I don't like those public displays of whatever, should I lie ?
Should I be banned ? I'm not entitled of my own opinion ?
Doesn't mean I don't accept gays, but I surely don't need those type of demonstrations blocking major streets.
What's wrong with them being free to legally marry, if they so choose?bigmick":26grermm said:whats wrong with civil partnerships that they have now
Who's being forced, and why should there be an issue?bigmick":26grermm said:why try force the issue
Neil":34gohi0p said:Who's being forced, and why should there be an issue?
This is what I really don't get.
If Jim (the tax attorney) and Jim (the anaesthesiologist) who live down the road, decide they want to get hitched, who else does it affect? Assuming nobody / no religions are being forced to be involved against their religious beliefs, then who else does it affect? Nobody, that's who.
Most would never know - a lot would probably never care - so why, then, should the unaffected presume to control?
I've never understood this perspective about how it affects society, or the insitution of marriage.
From what I can see, the only people it affects is those that presume to moralise over the rest of society - and from where I'm sat, people should be free to do most things and not restricted, so long as what they do does not harm others, nor impinge on others' freedoms.
Now if a bunch of self-righteous religious people want to be offended on behalf of, they should be roundly ignored - after all, probably all of their perspective on the matter, likely stems from a few throwaway lines, in an old tome, written by people just as morally flawed as those their work seeks to control.
And I suspect, over history, just as much harm has been metered out to the world on the basis of fervent religious beliefs, or moral hang-ups.
I just don't get why so many in society, choose to weigh in over something that doesn't affect or involve them - and it doesn't - so why should it matter, and why should that have any credence in restricting other people?
The paedophile / thin-end-of-the-wedge argument is a big stinking crock - over time, society has become significantly less tolerant of paedophilia - and I'm really not getting the connection between paedophilia, and legal, consensual behaviour and relationships for adults.
tintin40":1af1dexx said:Neil":1af1dexx said:Who's being forced, and why should there be an issue?
This is what I really don't get.
If Jim (the tax attorney) and Jim (the anaesthesiologist) who live down the road, decide they want to get hitched, who else does it affect? Assuming nobody / no religions are being forced to be involved against their religious beliefs, then who else does it affect? Nobody, that's who.
Most would never know - a lot would probably never care - so why, then, should the unaffected presume to control?
I've never understood this perspective about how it affects society, or the insitution of marriage.
From what I can see, the only people it affects is those that presume to moralise over the rest of society - and from where I'm sat, people should be free to do most things and not restricted, so long as what they do does not harm others, nor impinge on others' freedoms.
Now if a bunch of self-righteous religious people want to be offended on behalf of, they should be roundly ignored - after all, probably all of their perspective on the matter, likely stems from a few throwaway lines, in an old tome, written by people just as morally flawed as those their work seeks to control.
And I suspect, over history, just as much harm has been metered out to the world on the basis of fervent religious beliefs, or moral hang-ups.
I just don't get why so many in society, choose to weigh in over something that doesn't affect or involve them - and it doesn't - so why should it matter, and why should that have any credence in restricting other people?
The paedophile / thin-end-of-the-wedge argument is a big stinking crock - over time, society has become significantly less tolerant of paedophilia - and I'm really not getting the connection between paedophilia, and legal, consensual behaviour and relationships for adults.
4 pages :shock: 'Neil' wrote it better than i could have. Lets move in to the the 21st Century and out of the dark ages.