1) yes, different forks
2) yes, nice long steerer, will even need shims
3) 1 1/8th
4) Yep, realise that. Standard aheadset is expensive (compared to free), all I need is the compression collar to keep the top race in place.
If it works and is compatible without fudging, happy days. If it doesn't then I'll have to splash out.
Cash is an issue here; if it wasn't I wouldn't have started the thread!!