Sorry for the strange title, but only women riders will be able to answer my questions, OR those who genuinely know women who ride reasonable distances. Thanks to anyone who can help me out 
1) "what main issues re: comfort do women suffer on long hauls that men don't ?" ie: body shape. A woman for example has a predominantly more top heavy torso than a man. Does this mean that drop handle bars set for racing/touring cause women to reach too far forward ? If so, then over long distance does this cause miscomfort to said area ?
2) "changing gears" What is the preference, traditional downtube, stem mounted. or STI's ?
3) "Saddle shape" do womens anatomical actually work better OR for example would a slender type women be just as comfortable on a mans saddle ? I can vouch for San Marco Rolls over very long distance, but I am a slim man. I find it is the width of the saddle that causes me to feel comfort. Womens saddles are larger in the bum area for eg. A saddle that feels good for 40miles, can after 80miles leave you feeling like you've been cut in half. Experienced riders will know which saddles to avoid and which actually mold to your bum and get better the more miles you ride.
I guess I just really need some down to earth honest info from someone who can put me straight on the does & don'ts of building a long haul womans bike, advice from experience not a text book (no offence). Everything I can find out will help build a bike for purpose, not for show
Sorry if anyone finds me too forthright, but that's just me being me, no offence is meant
Any genuine advice really would be appreciated. Thanks, yours Laz.

1) "what main issues re: comfort do women suffer on long hauls that men don't ?" ie: body shape. A woman for example has a predominantly more top heavy torso than a man. Does this mean that drop handle bars set for racing/touring cause women to reach too far forward ? If so, then over long distance does this cause miscomfort to said area ?
2) "changing gears" What is the preference, traditional downtube, stem mounted. or STI's ?
3) "Saddle shape" do womens anatomical actually work better OR for example would a slender type women be just as comfortable on a mans saddle ? I can vouch for San Marco Rolls over very long distance, but I am a slim man. I find it is the width of the saddle that causes me to feel comfort. Womens saddles are larger in the bum area for eg. A saddle that feels good for 40miles, can after 80miles leave you feeling like you've been cut in half. Experienced riders will know which saddles to avoid and which actually mold to your bum and get better the more miles you ride.
I guess I just really need some down to earth honest info from someone who can put me straight on the does & don'ts of building a long haul womans bike, advice from experience not a text book (no offence). Everything I can find out will help build a bike for purpose, not for show

Sorry if anyone finds me too forthright, but that's just me being me, no offence is meant
