To use a quill stem the steerer must be a threaded one and use a threaded headset. the expander wedge just grips the inside of the steerer, keeping the stem & the forks together, it does nothing to secure either to the frame!
if the steerer has a star nut fitted and is smooth on the outside its a threadless steerer. these work with ahead/threadless headsets. the two systems are not mix and match.
As to removal, easiest way is not just "twat it", as this may cause damage (especially if you miss),
1, drill the top of the threaded inset out
2, then use a hammer and punch to turn the top part of the star nut edge on
3, use a pair of pliers and pull the top part out
4, repeat step 2 for the bottom part.
if the steerer has a star nut fitted and is smooth on the outside its a threadless steerer. these work with ahead/threadless headsets. the two systems are not mix and match.
As to removal, easiest way is not just "twat it", as this may cause damage (especially if you miss),
1, drill the top of the threaded inset out
2, then use a hammer and punch to turn the top part of the star nut edge on
3, use a pair of pliers and pull the top part out
4, repeat step 2 for the bottom part.