Re:
That was indeed quite a set-back yesterday. But no ways a "give up" situation. 
Thank you syncrosfan, for your information. I will sure sure look into both option. 
Actually, I was also thinking of machining down the interfaces on the frame. But I have to take some measurements first, 
to see if this is feasible. The other thing that I will have to consider when doing so, is the outer diameter difference on the 2 connecting tubes 
(main frame and carbon tube). If the difference is minute, it might work. If it is to obvious, I might want to consider the modified full carbon tubing. 
Either way, it is going to be a challenge. Let's get at her ;-) 
Cheers 
Jeroen