I'd avoid alloy nips altogether. The look funky, but aren't as strong and seize in pretty short periods of time. The problems they cause aren't worth the small weight saving. Brass is king.
I tend to use a blib of grease in the inside of the rim eyelet, to allow the nipple to still move easily as you're adding tension, and a light squirt of GT87 on the spoke threads. Linseed oil is also good, lubes then drys and binds; but still moves when you want it to, unlike some threadlocks.
I tend to use a blib of grease in the inside of the rim eyelet, to allow the nipple to still move easily as you're adding tension, and a light squirt of GT87 on the spoke threads. Linseed oil is also good, lubes then drys and binds; but still moves when you want it to, unlike some threadlocks.