So the gist of this is that it really depends on an amount of trust between the buyer and seller. I was just wondering what protection is available if bits do not arrive.
Also, if i have got this bit right - it is better to pay via PayPal 'for goods' and add the additional fee to the amount to be paid rather than gift it and pay the fee myself.
Eg Item costs £20 and i 'gift' the amount - the seller gets £20 and i pay a percentage OR Item costs £20 and i pay for goods to the value of £20 plus the fees and i have some protection with PayPal.
If the above is the case, the seller gets £20 each time, so why would they request 'gift'?
Thanks for all the replies, perhaps if one of the mods sees this they could cobble together an explanation in the appropriate section and we could get back to talking bikes!!