I don't need to know your previous history, nor you mine for that matter, to detect condescension cast down from an ivory tower.
However experienced, knowledgeable and revered you presume yourself to be, it does not excuse what I perceive to be your sage like overblown posts. Often focussing on minor details rather than being generous with your praise. Previous months' BOTM threads have assisted me in forming this view.
As always, only my personal view but yours are exactly the kind of pots I'm not feeling any love for or in.
As for the bonhomie, save it for those more easily pacified or share it prior to being challenged.