Oh how I'd like to just get into a t-shirt and shorts and cool down over hot days, but been fat makes shorts ride up between your legs and look stupid, I have only seen this and have not the courage to try it out myself, and madness has left my arms in such a state that everyone would now if I exposed them, so I have to look Victorian and be covered up from ankle to neck :roll:
Something I was wondering is, I have to do the pots and of course my children pass by, I got fed up with every thirty secs they wanted to say something, I'd roll down my sleeves and talk it would take hours to do the washing up, now I just do it they never question, but my arms are worse than the average harmer, I've practically no tendons in my right wrist and dips where there is no flesh left, my kids know about me, in fact before hospital my GP asked for a social worker to attend the house and she came and said to my children, I'm a friend of your mother's my response was " Do you know anything about children?" and said to my children "She's a social worker come to see if I'm a fit parent" they went off and played :roll: Children are not stupid, they know if you have friends or not :roll: why lie? but I hate exposing things but do you accept your children's knowledge and acceptance of the past or do you try and hide it for their sakes. I think they accept things but it is impossible to discuss it.
I just want to strip off and be cool, " You stupid woman you!!" I imagine I'm not the only one but usually it's teens, as my last GP so many times told me.
Alison
Alison
Something I was wondering is, I have to do the pots and of course my children pass by, I got fed up with every thirty secs they wanted to say something, I'd roll down my sleeves and talk it would take hours to do the washing up, now I just do it they never question, but my arms are worse than the average harmer, I've practically no tendons in my right wrist and dips where there is no flesh left, my kids know about me, in fact before hospital my GP asked for a social worker to attend the house and she came and said to my children, I'm a friend of your mother's my response was " Do you know anything about children?" and said to my children "She's a social worker come to see if I'm a fit parent" they went off and played :roll: Children are not stupid, they know if you have friends or not :roll: why lie? but I hate exposing things but do you accept your children's knowledge and acceptance of the past or do you try and hide it for their sakes. I think they accept things but it is impossible to discuss it.
I just want to strip off and be cool, " You stupid woman you!!" I imagine I'm not the only one but usually it's teens, as my last GP so many times told me.
Alison
Alison