Bpool77
Senior Retro Guru
Well I was just talking to a friend on the phone who's son is more than heading the way of a sentence (how he's got bail I will never know) I have spent a long time in some form or another behind a door closed scenario. Starting when I was 13 in what was called a secure unit (basically a child's prison) and he asked..
Will it help him?
Will it stop him?
What will happen to him?
Will he get raped?
What should I do?
My views on experience are no it will not work, it's the person who needs to change.
As above? If he ends up there, use it get a trade ( plentyfull ) out of it and then given what skills he's adopted, get him a job.
He will change? depending on the prison and region.You learn to respect people.
No homosexuality is a no in prison. Rape is very rare and if it was to happen the rapists would need to be placed on a protection. A wing for there own protection and "treatment" .
I don't know? your his dad he's your son living in a no opportunities town? So at least if he does go he can get a trade? Mechanic I say? Then maybe (we know mechanics) he can get a trade that will always be there?
I know there's prison officers and police officers on here and I would genuinely like your input but if this lad goes the way I went x amount of years later life's gone, and he hasn't got a wealthy enough family to give him bonds for flats bail outs pocket money ect? Hmmm?
And grabbing him bye the scruff doesn't,hasn't worked.
Will it help him?
Will it stop him?
What will happen to him?
Will he get raped?
What should I do?
My views on experience are no it will not work, it's the person who needs to change.
As above? If he ends up there, use it get a trade ( plentyfull ) out of it and then given what skills he's adopted, get him a job.
He will change? depending on the prison and region.You learn to respect people.
No homosexuality is a no in prison. Rape is very rare and if it was to happen the rapists would need to be placed on a protection. A wing for there own protection and "treatment" .
I don't know? your his dad he's your son living in a no opportunities town? So at least if he does go he can get a trade? Mechanic I say? Then maybe (we know mechanics) he can get a trade that will always be there?
I know there's prison officers and police officers on here and I would genuinely like your input but if this lad goes the way I went x amount of years later life's gone, and he hasn't got a wealthy enough family to give him bonds for flats bail outs pocket money ect? Hmmm?
And grabbing him bye the scruff doesn't,hasn't worked.