Just a note.
It is not normal to have feelings of hate towards a partner.
If you have feelings of rage you need to find out why. If the source is the actions of a partner, and you have established your reactions are 'normal' you need to consider moving on. Whether that is in collaboration with the partner to change things, or the other options.
tbh retrobike is probley not the best place to get marriage advice
especially from a bunch of blokes with a string of broken relationships.
hes only vented a bit of anger, dosent mean he hates his wife. probley the added stress of redundancy looming dosent help.
im only guessing but venting your anger towards the internet probley meens you need to take a break from the internet. anyone who walks away from a marrige at the slightest barny dosent deserve to be married. if its ment to be you'll work it out
I would always suggest seeing a counsellor, which can be arranged through a number of channels or by direct contact. Try Relate.
The remark about hate is a response to the post immediately before mine.
I agree this is not the ideal place for advice, but there are plenty of us who have had long successful relationships rather than a string of borks.
It is also not the ideal place to come for advice on 90% of the other threads in off topic!
The doctor diagnosed me with hereditary diarrhoea. I can't understand, I wear a kilt.