Looking at the axle it has some marks on the bearing surface so at zero play it may well be just a little "crunchy". The caged bearings look OK, by the time the bearings themselves have gone the cage is wrecked as it is usually the cage that wears down first.
Have a final go but using the each tool separately. tighten the cup so the axle just has a little play and then tighten the ring and check. if a little loose then back off the ring and tighten the cup then tighten the ring........keep doing it an increment at a time until there is no play.
If there is a little catch / crunch then it's the axle being a little pitted.
Carry on, get out and ride it and make a mental note to look out for a new BB for next year
The outside of the BB shell being out of alignment isn't usually a problem until you use it.........and the then the cups work loose.